Love Revolution Workshop @ Alapan Unida Church

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Date(s) - 22/10/2016
01:00 pm - 05:00 pm

Alapan Church Cavite


Love Revolution Workshop

True Love Waits Workshop is done within small groups composed of 10 participants which gives youth an opportunity to have a deeper and more intimate discussion about love, relationships, waiting, sex and purity according to God’s biblical perspectives.


A four hour workshop facilitated by a trained male-female facilitator.
It is done within small groups composed of 10 participants.

Target Audience

Youth aged 12-19 / Young adults aged 20-30 years


Workshop Overview

  1. LESSON 1: The ONEAims:
    • Know the qualities people are looking for the right ONE;
    • Understand the Five Love Languages
    • Identify five persons whom True Love is due


Activity: The ONE
Let’s begin the search…

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

  • Words of Affirmation
  • Quality Time
  • Acts of ServiceGive Me Five!

• GOD deserves your True Love

• Receiving/Giving Gifts • Physical Touch

– Offering our bodies to God (Romans 12:1) – He demands sexual purity

  • YOU need True Love
    – Your body is a temple of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) – Guarding our minds (Philippians 4:8)
    – Love others as well as YOU love yourself
    – Don’t Waste Your Life
  • OTHERS (FAMILY and FRIENDS) need True Love – Loving Family- Treat others as brothers and sisters in Christ
    (1 Timothy 5:1-2, 1 Thessalonians 4: 3-7 John 15:13)
  • Your FUTUREMATE needs True Love – Activity: My Ideal Future Mate- Dear Future Mate
  • FUTURE KIDS need True Love
    – The Bible recognizes the value of children (Psalm 127:3) – Activity: Feeling Mom and DadSummary and Conclusion
    Recap using the TLW Hand IllustrationLesson Summary: GOD LOVESLESSON 2: MYX-ed UP!Aims:
  • Know that Media, You, and the Xtraordinary Book affects us;
  • Differentiate True Love and Infatuation based on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
  • Understand that God desires sexual innocence and is concerned about the futureIntroduction
  • Activity: Follow the lines
  • Media affects us through television shows, movies, music, print ads, billboards, etc.
  • You are affected with what you see, hear, feel, and think.
  • Xtraordinary Book tells the truth and gives real answers away from deception.True Love VS InfatuationIdentify what is Love & Infatuation from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Before You Say “I Do.” Ask Yourself, “Do I”? (1 Thessalonians 4:3)

Holding Hands

Kissing Petting

Pre-Marital Sex

Oral Sex Lusting

Multiple Partners

Same Sex Relationship

God’s Purpose for Sex

  • Marriage Bed Kept Pure (Hebrews 13:4)
  • Misuses of Sex
  • Activity “Torn Apart”Sexual Innocence (1 John 2:28, Eph 5:3-4)
  • Don’t Waste Your Sexuality
  • The Truth about HIV/AIDS and Condoms
  • The Common DenominatorLesson Summary: EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKESLESSON 3: How Do We Get Through It All?Aims:
  • Prepare them in the pressures they will encounter
  • Cite consequences of premarital sex
  • Experience forgiveness and new life todayIntroduction
  • We experience mistakes
  • Too much to handle
  • How can we know and experience True Love?PressuresTo force, as by overpowering influence or persuasion.Pregnancy
  • Priorities Are Changed
  • Finances Are Doubled
  • Dreams Are ShatteredPast (Emotional Baggage)

Guilt Shame Regret

Damage of Self-image

Receive New Life Through Faith(John 1:12, Eph 2:8-9, John 3:1-8) Am I Pure? Is there a Way?
Starting Over (Isaiah 1:8, 1 John 1:9, 2 Corinthians 5:17) Forgiveness & Repentance

Power to Do Right


LESSON 4: Want to Know the TRUTH?


  • Understand that Purity is a Lifestyle; it’s more than about sex.
  • Practical ways while waiting
  • Love is a DecisionIntroductionJust because you’re a virgin, it doesn’t mean you are pure
    Just because you’re not a virgin, it doesn’t mean you are not purePurity
  • Purity VS Virginity
  • Purity is a LifestyleProtection
  • Seek God
  • Guard Your Heart (Proverbs 4:23)
  • Reasons to WaitPill: Vitamin C
  • True Commitment
  • Controlled by Christ
  • Self-ControlLove is a Decision (1 John 2:26, John 8:31)
    Lesson Summary: SALVATION comes by knowing CHRIST.Knowing CHRIST is the way to experience TRUE LOVE from GOD.

The Challenge of Waiting
Commitment Cards & Accountability
The Challenge of Commitment