Love Revolution Workshop @ Alapan Unida Church

0. LESSON 1: The ONEAims:
   • Know the qualities people are looking for the right ONE;
   • Understand the Five Love Languages
   • Identify five persons whom True Love is due

Introduction

Activity: The ONE
Let’s begin the search…

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

• Words of Affirmation
• Quality Time
• Acts of ServiceGive Me Five!

• GOD deserves your True Love

• Receiving/Giving Gifts • Physical Touch

– Offering our bodies to God (Romans 12:1) – He demands sexual purity

• YOU need True Love
  – Your body is a temple of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) – Guarding our minds (Philippians 4:8)
  – Love others as well as YOU love yourself
  – Don’t Waste Your Life
• OTHERS (FAMILY and FRIENDS) need True Love – Loving Family- Treat others as brothers and sisters in Christ
  (1 Timothy 5:1-2, 1 Thessalonians 4: 3-7 John 15:13)
• Your FUTUREMATE needs True Love – Activity: My Ideal Future Mate- Dear Future Mate
• FUTURE KIDS need True Love
  – The Bible recognizes the value of children (Psalm 127:3) – Activity: Feeling Mom and DadSummary and Conclusion
  Recap using the TLW Hand IllustrationLesson Summary: GOD LOVESLESSON 2: MYX-ed UP!Aims:

• Know that Media, You, and the Xtraordinary Book affects us;
• Differentiate True Love and Infatuation based on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
• Understand that God desires sexual innocence and is concerned about the futureIntroduction

• Activity: Follow the lines
• Media affects us through television shows, movies, music, print ads, billboards, etc.
• You are affected with what you see, hear, feel, and think.
• Xtraordinary Book tells the truth and gives real answers away from deception.True Love VS InfatuationIdentify what is Love & Infatuation from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Before You Say “I Do.” Ask Yourself, “Do I”? (1 Thessalonians 4:3)

Holding Hands

Kissing Petting

Pre-Marital Sex

Oral Sex Lusting

Multiple Partners

Self-Pleasure
Same Sex Relationship

God’s Purpose for Sex

• Marriage Bed Kept Pure (Hebrews 13:4)
• Misuses of Sex
• Activity “Torn Apart”Sexual Innocence (1 John 2:28, Eph 5:3-4)

• Don’t Waste Your Sexuality
• The Truth about HIV/AIDS and Condoms
• The Common DenominatorLesson Summary: EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKESLESSON 3: How Do We Get Through It All?Aims:

• Prepare them in the pressures they will encounter
• Cite consequences of premarital sex
• Experience forgiveness and new life todayIntroduction

• We experience mistakes
• Too much to handle
• How can we know and experience True Love?PressuresTo force, as by overpowering influence or persuasion.Pregnancy

• Priorities Are Changed
• Finances Are Doubled
• Dreams Are ShatteredPast (Emotional Baggage)

Guilt Shame Regret

Depression
Mistrust
Damage of Self-image

Receive New Life Through Faith(John 1:12, Eph 2:8-9, John 3:1-8) Am I Pure? Is there a Way?
Starting Over (Isaiah 1:8, 1 John 1:9, 2 Corinthians 5:17) Forgiveness & Repentance

Power to Do Right

Lesson Summary: THROUGH CHRIST WE ARE LOVED.

LESSON 4: Want to Know the TRUTH?

Aims:

• Understand that Purity is a Lifestyle; it’s more than about sex.
• Practical ways while waiting
• Love is a DecisionIntroductionJust because you’re a virgin, it doesn’t mean you are pure
  Just because you’re not a virgin, it doesn’t mean you are not purePurity

• Purity VS Virginity
• Purity is a LifestyleProtection

• Seek God
• Guard Your Heart (Proverbs 4:23)
• Reasons to WaitPill: Vitamin C

• True Commitment
• Controlled by Christ
• Self-ControlLove is a Decision (1 John 2:26, John 8:31)
  Lesson Summary: SALVATION comes by knowing CHRIST.Knowing CHRIST is the way to experience TRUE LOVE from GOD.